Hard Choices

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So Happy Holidays! This year has been shit for everyone and we have the orange dictator-elect to deal with soon. Also, I’m the only person who is feeling really disappointed at how the recounts were shut down. I  really wish that Hilary had ignored Obama and went after Trump Immediately.

*sigh* But enough of Politics. I want to talk about something else. So I’m a burgeoning Graphic Designer, and I especially want to make book covers. However, making book covers is like you have to have a lot of contacts, or you have to be a writer yourself. And honestly with my two nephews being born in January. I decided to make a hard choice.  Put Miss Match Media on the side burner and concentrate all of my energy on the blogging.

I want a decent income, and Blogging will get me there sooner. Once I’m making some decent money, I will be back to the Graphic Design.  I have one new blog, Dress Them Up. And I’m in the process of creating another fanfiction review blog called Ficnatically. Because let’s be honest, I read WAY MORE fanfiction than original books, and it takes me forever to finish original books.

I’m also going to be updating this blog more often, at least once a week on the weekend.

So you are probably thinking, that is what three blogs? How you are going to keep up that pace with SEVEN kids to take care of.  First, I’m going to be scheduling posts waaaaay ahead of time.  *Pats The Editoral Calender Plugin* and then I’m going to dictate it. I actually brought Dragon Natural Speaking.  I’m going to spend the time before my nephew’s birth training the program up

So I can get my blog posts done, and it won’t kill me.

So what’s going on with you guys?

Until The Fat Lady Sings

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So It’s the day before Thanksgiving and I know damn well I should be preparing for that, but I  just finished reading this CNN article that says that a lot of technological experts are pleading with Hilary Clinton to challenge the results of the elections in the swing states because it’s possible that Russia has hacked our elections. I also have to say, that I find it really freaking suspicious that every poll worth their salt was dead wrong.

Our election results need to be audited and you can sign this petition here and please read this article from that talks about how to contact your state electors. Also, please for anyone with a basic sense of fairness to please call or email your state representative and demand a congressional investigation into our elections.

I really want Hilary to dust off that pantsuit and get back into this fight because the fat lady hasn’t sung just yet and we can not abide having this orange buffoon in the white house. Also, can I talk the time to laugh at how Trump had the nerve to try to force the Hamilton cast to apologize because they dare ask Vice-President Elect Pence to work for all people? And no, the Hamilton cast was responsible for some of its audience booing Pence. Actually, I would have booed the man who believes that I should go through conversation therapy because I’m queer.  I totally support booing the man who was the most homophobic governor in the country.

Anyway, I want to tell everyone happy thanksgiving and I hope that you have a safe holiday.



Do Not Go Quietly Into That Good Night

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So the election is over, and last night I was praying for that the results of the election was a nightmare and I would wake up to a sane and just world. Apparently, the real world is neither just or sane.  So two months we will be signing in President Trump.  But you know what I briefly considered moving to Canada.

First off, I can’t afford it. I’m a poor black artist,  But also I’m not going away, I’m not going to be quiet. I’m here and queer and black and I will be shouting about it. I’m going to march in the streets with my queer brothers and sisters and my black brother and sisters. I will not like tyranny win.

But I want to you guys to not give up. To not go quietly into that good night. We bide our time, we will organize, we will march until they are no more people to talk about it.We went through Bush, and we can get through this.

Just please, please vote in the midterms and keep your chins up.

Donald Trump

Congratulations Donald Trump For Being America’s Douchebag In Chief!

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Seriously, this freaking election cycle has worn me down so much that I had to literally had to reinvent my entire website so I could rant ad nasueum about the gross stupidity and bat-shittery of Donald Trump and his campaign of lunatics. It’s like the world decided that I didn’t have enough assholes to talk about right now *cough* Cassandra Clare *cough

But no, a bunch of dimwitted angry white people decided to make the worst underqualified person ever to be a Republican candidate for the Presidency of  the United States . In my opinion, this shit has been a long time in coming, but I thought that maybe the Republican Party will finally get their heads out of their asses and actually listen to the 2012 election ‘Post Mortem‘ report. But  that shit just went over the Republican party’s head. I totally blame Paul Ryans, John Boehner, Reince Priebus  and Michael Steele for the current clusterfuck we are currently in. These jackasses made the disastrous decision to put the party’s money and support not behind the moderate Republicans who actually want to actually work to take this country forward, but on the assholes who want to to take us back to the freaking dark ages. That glamorous time when minorities were treated more like second class citizens.


I’m also putting a good portion of the blame on the mainstream media who normalized this asshole. I’m looking at you NBC the producers of the Apprentice, and CNN who gave this douche bag millions of dollars in free publicity.

But this weekend has to be the nuttiest part of the election so far.  I’m serious, people ignored the mountain of evidence that Donald Trump is a misogynist, racist, homophobic bigot, who by the way already has a rape case currently in legislation, but now the audio recording from ‘Acess Hollywood’ in 2005 was too much for the party of family values.

Apart of me is cackling loudly and triumphantly, because this is finally the validation that every free-thinking liberal and progressive far as the eye could see has been screaming about since at least the Convention.  Yet, it really pisses me off that the mainstream media just sat back and Donald Trump gets this far in the election.

And it’s been proven not only by the rape case, not only the way he’s perves on his own freaking daughters, the alleged rape of his two ex-wives, and now the ‘Acess Hollywood’ tapes that if Donald Trump hadn’t been a  rich white guy, he would have been in prison. Or do I need to bring up the Central Park Five case?

And the media is doing it again in my opinion. Donald Trump won the debate according to the Chris Matthews and the Young Turks, and I have two words for you guys: Fuck.You!  I have watched and read the transcripts of the debate and he might have been holding it together in the first five minutes, but after that, everything was zero policy and a bunch of word soup.

And don’t get me started on how he exploited the alleged rape victims of Bill Clinton’s for political points.  Now, I’m not saying that Bill is innocent, not at all. What I’m saying is that I don’t know the real story, because they are not enough solid facts. The feminist in me wants me to just take Juanita Broaddrick at her word, but the skeptical in me thinks about the whole impeachment circus and how staunch Republican Ken Starr was looking under every nook and cranny to find something to impeach then-President Clinton with.  And even Ken Starr really couldn’t find any hard evidence to support Broaddrick ‘s story.


However, all that distracts from the fact that it was completely irresponsible that Donald Trump would use the victim’s traumatic experiences to score cheap political points. And I find it hypocritical that Trump is screaming about Bill’s alleged rape case., he continues pretends that he empathizes with the victims when he himself denigrated the victims when the scandal first came out.  In the end, this is all about Bill Clinton, and it’s sexist and grossly unfair to judge Hilary by her husband’s actions.

In the end, All I can say is that all of us need to start rounding up everyone we  know, and get out there and VOTE!  I’m especially looking at you all you minorities.  You owe it not only yourself but your entire country to vote. Don’t let this Cheeto-dusted douchebag become our next President.

[Sporking] Fuck Your Sexist Bullshit, Scott Baio!

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“First of all, I think 11 years ago Trump was a Democrat, so doesn’t he deserve a pass? I like Trump because Trump is not a politician; he talks like a guy,” the Happy Days alum said on Sunday, October 9. “And ladies out there, this is what guys talk about when you’re not around. So if you’re offended by it, grow up. And by the way, this is what you guys talk about over white wine when you have your brunches, so take it easy with your phony outrage. This is the way the world works. It’s not a big thing.”

Source: Scott Baio Defends Donald Trump’s Lewd Comments: ‘Not a Big Thing’ – Us Weekly

I’m actually going to do a mini spork of this because every sentence of this fuckery deserves to be torn to fucking shred like the garage it is! 

“First of all, I think 11 years ago Trump was a Democrat, so doesn’t he deserve a pass?”


NO, HE FUCKING DOES NOT! If Hilary’s “super predator” comments and her husband’s infidelity from the fucking 90’s can be brought up over and over again to score cheap political points. Then it’s only fair that we get to call out Trump’s fuckery.  I hate to break it to you Chachi boy, but your hypercriticism is showing.

I like Trump because Trump is not a politician; he talks like a guy,” the Happy Days alum said on Sunday, October 9.

Say what?

‘The Trump is not a politician bullshit really pisses me off.  First of all, Trump has been campaigning to be President off and on for 16 years and was involved in politics many years before that. You might not remember it because you are a knuckle dragging neanderthal with a brain the size of a pea. Fortunately,  sites like Wikipedia exist for a reason.  And I would also like to show you the definition of a politician according to Merriam-Webster:

Full Definition of politician

  1. 1:  a person experienced in the art or science of government; especially:  one actively engaged in conducting the business of a government

  2. 2a:  a person engaged in party politics as a professionb:  a person primarily interested in political office for selfish or other narrow usually short-sighted reasons

Trump is just as a politician as any the establishment Republicans, the only difference between them is that  Trump has never done any real public service. Trump for a long time has had the part-time job as a political lobby for his company for freaking decades. *puts hands to ears* What is that I hear? That would be all the receipts falling down on top of your fucking empty head.

Also, let’s be clear about something Chachi.  You and your neanderthal friends may talk about women in this way, but you know what? The majority of men in most civilized portions of the world has already realized that consent is fucking mandatory.  I have talked to many men, athletes, and frat brothers, they pretty much debunked Trump’s claim that this is just ‘locker room talk’. Let’s be very clear, Trump was talking about rape. He basically said that the content of any women that he encounters doesn’t matter to him all. The only thing that matters to Donald J. Trump is satisfying his own sexual desires.

So again, fuck you and the entitled horse you rode in on you sexist bastard!

“And ladies out there, this is what guys talk about when you’re not around.”

Eye Roll

Bullshit! I would point to what said earlier.  However, I want to add something: yes, most men appreciated the physical features of someone they are sexually attracted to.   However,  it is very clear by the video that Donald Trump and Billy Bush quickly crossed the line of appreciation and went straight into objectifying these women.

Trump and Bush crossed the line when they started talking about women as if they were pieces of meat, instead of actual human beings. They crossed the line, when Donald Trump, bold as brass admitted to not only not giving a shit about the women’s body autonomies,  he didn’t care about getting consent, and he sure as hell didn’t care that didn’t give a shit about Bush’s co-host Nancy O’Dell. Both Trump and Bush were ever so gleefully talk about Trump coming on to O’Dell even though she was married at the time. Which is more than a bit hypocritical for the candidate of the party that supposed to be all about the ‘family values’.

So no, most guys talk don’t talk about women this way in private. No, it’s just you, Trump, and the rest of the neanderthals who talked about women this way. Men like you, Trump, and Bush think that just because of they white, rich, and famous entitles them to get anything their want and that they are even above the law. And fuck you, and the ‘boys will be boys’ rape culture mentality! This type of backward ass thinking is one of the many reasons rape is one of the hardest crimes to prosecute in this country.

Fuck You!

So if you’re offended by it, grow up.

fuck you

I’m plenty grown-up you condescending patronizing douche canoe!  It’s you who’s acting a pre-pubescent child who was told they can’t get  any candy.  My six-year-old little boy is even more mature than you and that’s saying a lot!

And by the way, this is what you guys talk about over white wine when you have your brunches, so take it easy with your phony outrage.”

Excuse Me?

Nice gross generalization there Chachi! I can’t speak for other women, but I personally don’t talk about anyone I’m interested or even vaguely attracted like that , not even when I’m just hanging out with my friends. For example,  I might find both Lucy Lawless or Jason Momoa hot. Yet, no matter how much I admire them, I always acknowledge that these are real people, with real feelings,  and real relationships. Even when I’m at a convention, I always try to respect them as people and that includes respecting their body autonomy.  It’s the same way that I treat people I’m attracted to. It’s all just part of being a decent human being. I’m sorry that you and Donald Trump don’t

“This is the way the world works. It’s not a big thing.”

go to hell and don't come back

No, this isn’t how the world works. But no you know what, even if it did, it still wouldn’t make it right.  And to all those millennial women who bitch and moan about the big bad feminists? Yeah, this man and men like him think they somehow still  live in the universe of the ‘Mad Men’ television show, and not in modern society. This is why we need feminism because men like Baio still don’t know that women are people too, who deserve to be respected and protected equally under the law.


In Which The GOP Still Doesn’t Know The Meaning Of Irony

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The internecine war between GOP presidential candidate Donald Trump’s campaign and the leadership of the Republican Party burst into public view on Monday with Trump’s Virginia state chairman getting booted from the campaign for heading up a protest outside the headquarters of the Republican National Committee.On Monday, RNC head Reince Priebus and House Majority Leader Paul Ryan both conducted conference calls with GOP lawmakers and party activists, trying to hold things together following another disastrous Trump debate performance.However Trump partisans, egged on by Trump attacking Ryan on Twitter, showed up across the street from RNC headquarters holding signs and chanting.In pictures posted online, one protester can be seen holding a sign reading: “Better to grab a p***y than to be one.”Showing that Trump still needs the support of the RNC just as much as Republican Party leadership fears overtly turning their back on their presidential nominee will be devastating come election time, the Trump campaign fired Virginia State Chairman Corey Stewart.

Source: GOP in disarray: Trump’s Virginia state chairman fired for staging protest in front of RNC headquarters

laughing my ass off

Okay, first of all,  this is funny as hell!  Like Seriously, the problem wasn’t the horrible man with the grossly sexist sign, but that Virgina State Chairman Corey Stewart dared to organize a ‘Women For Trump Protest’.  Because everyone including Donald Trump and Reince Priebus is trying to pretend that everything is just fine and dandy and that the Republican party isn’t doing a very good imitation of the Titanic.  This ist totally a prime example of the blatant ignorance and hypocrisy of the Trump Campaign and their supporters.

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